As a dude, ever asked yourself why you can't pull the lady that you're keen on or why you constantly find your blowing your savings in the friendship zone?
There's a simple philosophy that my OG's put me onto, my Wolfpack understands, my young'ns are now fully aware of and Nas broke down so precisely, "My bitches they be laughing."
The statement is so basic. It's what you forgot about before entering the friendship zone wilderness… make sure the ladies are having fun, they need to be dancing and laughing… you need to be the cause of this.
Ever seen this BEE types with the giant guts, loud-ear tickling collars and the man-bags with a squadron of broads that look bored as hell. Ever noticed how they keep looking over at the table of dudes who didn't land with broads but are laughing their little hearts out? Ever noticed how at some point in the night they have changed location and are now laughing at the next table?
This isn't science… it's basic human dynamics and interactions. Look at your friends… we all vibe with people that we share similar humour with. Your boys understand your slang and the general weird shit you utter.
It works the same with the opposite sex. If you can make a woman laugh and consistently have fun in your presence, then you pretty much have her attention… even when you're not around.
The theory on being cool isn't what you see in the mirror, homie… it's how she views you. Ironically you have to stop trying to be cool in order to be cool. She has to think you're cool… forget what your ninjaz think… unless you are attracted to them.
Keep the ladies laughing.
Trust me
Spot on :)
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